佛说爱情‏

深夜，寺里一人一佛，佛坐人站。

人：圣明的佛，我是一个已婚之人，我现在狂热地爱上了另一个女人，我真的不知道该怎么办。

佛：你能确定你现在爱上的这个女人就是你生命里唯一的最后一个女人吗？

人：是的。

佛：你离婚，然后娶她。

人：可是我现在的爱人温柔，善良，贤惠，我这样做是否有一点残忍，有一点不道德。

佛：在婚姻中没有爱才是残忍和不道德的，你现在爱上了别人已不爱她了，你这样做是正确的。

人：可是我爱人很爱我，真的很爱我。

佛：那她就是幸福的。

人：我要与她离婚后另娶她人，她应该是很痛苦的又怎么会是幸福的呢？

佛：在婚姻里她还拥有她对你的爱，而你在婚姻中已失去对她的爱，因为你爱上了别人，正谓拥有的就是幸福的，失去的才是痛苦的，所以痛苦的人是你

人：可是我要和她离婚后另娶她人，应该是她失去了我，她应该才是痛苦的。

佛：你错了，你只是她婚姻中真爱的一个具体，当你这个具体不存在的时候，她的真爱会延续到另一个具体，因为她在婚姻中的真爱从没有失去过。所以她才是幸福的而你才是痛苦的。

人：她说过今生只爱我一个，她不会爱上别人的。

佛：这样的话你也说过吗？

人：我。我。。我。。。

佛：你现在看你面前香炉里的三根蜡烛，哪根最亮。

人：我真的不知道，好像都是一样的亮。

佛：这三根蜡烛就好比是三个女人，其中一根就是你现在所爱的那个女人，芸芸众生，女人何止千千万，你连这三根蜡烛哪根最亮你都不知道，都不能把你现在爱的人找出来，你为什么又能确定你现在爱的这个女人就是你生命里唯一的最后一个女人呢?

人：我。我。。我。。。

佛：你现在把一根蜡烛拿到你眼前，看看哪根最亮！

人：当然是眼前的这根最亮。

佛：你现在把它放回原处，再看看哪根最亮！

人：我真的还是看不出哪根最亮。

佛：其实你刚拿的那根蜡烛就是好比是你现在爱的那个最后的女人，所谓爱由心 生，当你感觉你爱她时，你用心去看就觉的它最亮，当你把它放回原处，你却找不到到最亮的一点感觉，你这种所谓的最后的唯一的爱只是镜花水月，到头来终究是一场空.

人：哦，我懂了，你并不是要我与我的爱人离婚，你是在点化我。

佛：看破不说破，你去吧。

人：我现在真的知道我爱的是谁了，她就是我现在的爱人。

佛：阿弥陀佛，阿弥陀佛。

my memorable 19th birthday~

wah!! time jz go so so fast!!!

i still remember the previous time i updated my blog about my 18th birthday~~

look bk.. is like jz yesterday! within a year things change...

i grow up...

this would be my last year of teen!!

nx YEAR 20!! no more teen... sound so scary to me!!!!!!!

argh..........

so now... time to tell my dear reader wat happen~~

my 19th birthday..
let me seperate my celebration into three parts

1stly....

from my lovely classmates~~t
hanks guys.. for planning this....even though is mean!

is really really mean!!

can u imagine... ppl bought the cake not to taste it!!
but jz to smash it on my face!!!!!!!!!!!jz some pic about how the 'party' go!!!

then u can imagine!!!!

location:Segi university College
Date: 25th Feb 2010

my third celebration was with my dearest secondary friend~
specially thanks for Camun to plan this place~ was really really wonderful~
and of course thanks to agnes n Danial for joining n for that wonderful dinner~
love u guys so so much~~ muack muacks~~

the location: the apartment in The curve
date: 28th Feb 2010

yummy cupcakes v had~ so beautiful... hee~ us trying to be SS~ hee...but love everyone 'pose'

end of the nite~ we discover this shop~ haha... is in the curve go check it out~ n u will noe wat is this shop about~


* thanks to all my friends..
And also my 3rd sis for buying me a most precious watch in my life~ i'll take good care of it.. dun worry~
i was a bit disappointing this year cause dint get any celebration from my family.. but i'm sure that they remember.. jz not wishing me~ that's was wat cool family do right?
jz trying to convince my self~ and i hope i'm right~
at last THANKS mum for giving my life.. n make me hav a look of this year~
and daddy... i noe u will always bless all of us~ i miss u~
love u always~

WARNING!!! IMPORTANT!! READ

EVERYONE!!!
THIS stupid hacker hacked my hotmail AND MY facebook account~

SO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FACEBOOK N HOTMAIL of MINE is not MINE anymore!!
pls warn ur friends for this~~
pls beware of this e-mail!!

HE/ SHE is the one who hacked me!!!!!!!!
lim_siewteng@hotmail.com
if she added in ur msn blocked her RIGHT NOW!!!

and i have no idea who she is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(cause as i noe she start adding my friends and tell them that i'm the one who gave her the e-mail!! i swear to god i dint do such stupid stuff!!!)


ARGH!!! i'm getting mad!!!!!!!!!
god... pls give me bk my account~~ dun wan bad things to happen!!! @@